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Celebrating Mom on Mother’s Day
Moms are typically those kind souls who love to nurture and give of themselves unselfishly. Their focus is on pleasing others, solving everyone's problems and making sure their family members have all their needs meet. However, in the process, many moms lose sight of getting their own needs and wants met. There is a sense of guilt if they take time out for themselves, as if it is somehow selfish to put themselves first.
With this sense of self-sacrifice and self-neglect, many moms suffer quietly with the kinds of repressed emotions and unreleased stress that can lead to emotional eating habits, lack of physical activity and sleep problems, all serious contributors to overweight, obesity and many weight-related health problems such as heart disease, diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, some forms of cancer and more.
Therefore, the most important thing you can do this Mother's Day is finding that special way to honor your mom or someone who has been like a mother to you. And, if you're a mom yourself, it could also mean allowing for your loved ones to spoil you rotten.
Having already lost my mother to cancer, perhaps my take on Mother's Day is a little bit different. I would give anything to have my mom back to make her feel special and appreciated. It's not about how expensive the jewelry, or how fancy the restaurant or how big the box of chocolate. Sure, those things are nice, but it's about the time, love and attention that you give. It is about the thought, meaning and genuine feelings of appreciation behind it all.
The bottom line is moms just want to feel special and appreciated by others, the same way they make others feel. But equally important, moms need to learn how to make themselves feel special and appreciated. They need to learn how to do this for themselves by learning to let go of guilt and how to be selfish in a positive and productive way. This means re-defining the word “selfish”. They have to learn to be kinder, more nurturing and giving to themselves and learn to reach out for and ask for what they themselves need and want.
So, if you're looking for a gift for Mother's Day, why not do something to help your mom show herself some appreciation. Here are some suggestions:
Take her shopping and help her pick out a new outfit. Encourage her to try a new colour or style that makes her feel great about herself. Sometimes we all need a little boost to give us the courage to get out of our comfort zones.
Take her to the spa and let her pick out the treatments she would like to have. For example, you may want to surprise her with a manicure, but maybe she's never had a massage and with a little encouragement would want to give that a try instead.
Take her to brunch or dinner at a restaurant that she's always been wanting to try, but has never had the opportunity. Ask her where she'd like to go, or make a few suggestions. Or, if you prefer, why not prepare a special brunch at home for her with her favourite foods. Be sure to set the table with your best table linens and silverware to make her feel extra special.
Take your mom on an outing to something new and different that she never would have gone to otherwise. This could be a new movie in town, a special exhibit at the local museum, a wine tasting, or some unique event that is going on in your city. Check your local paper to see what's going on.
Cherish every moment you have with your mother. Make this an extra special Mother's Day by giving her your time, attention and appreciation. But don't forget, the flowers and jewelry are appreciated too! Enjoy your Mother's Day celebrations.
Plan Your Snack Attack
By Dr. Eric Wiens, DC
A recent study reported that over 95 percent of North American women and children in this country have at least one snack each day.
Now there’s nothing wrong with snacking. The trouble arises with most popular snacks in are loaded with sugar, packed with fat and dusted over with a heaping blast of salt.
Since snacking is very much a part of our routine, the secret is planning for it. What do I mean? First off, usually snacks are spontaneous. They shouldn’t be.
Grabbing whatever is in the fridge or the first thing you see in the vending machine usually spells disaster. Instead, be prepared with a variety of healthy snacks, so when the urge strikes, you don’t just grab a Twix at the checkout counter.
Secondly, keep your snacks in places readily available. If you usually find yourself stopping for a quick bite on the commute home from work, it may be wise to pack a snack in your glove compartment.
At the same time, be sure to keep only a limited amount of snacks on hand. Even healthy snacks can become a problem when consumed in abundance. Lastly, try to plan when you’re going to snack and stick to it. This will help in several ways.
Most importantly, it takes spontaneity out of the equation. When you snack on impulse, it’s very hard to have control over how often you snack, what you eat and how much. We usually snack when stressed, bored, depressed or lonely. Not the best time to make decisions.
In a nutshell, if you’re like most people, you are going to snack. Be smart and prepare a choice of healthy snack items like nuts, fruits and fresh cut vegetables. Keep them accessible and plan ahead. Good health will follow!

